Lent 2
Gratitude as a Spiritual practice: Fr. Nicholas
‘In
everything give thanks’ 1 Thess 5:18
The French
philosopher Gaston Bachelard, (1884 – 1962) writes in his beautiful book on
architecture, The Poetics of Space:
“Each one
of us, then, should speak of his roads, his crossroads, his roadside benches;
each one should make a surveyors map of his lost fields and meadows… Space
calls for action and before action the imagination is at work” (page 60)
Lent is
above all a season to make space to survey our metaphorical roads and make use
of our imagination to envision new possibilities. Every moment brings us to a
crossroad. Action or inaction, everything is a decision expressing a faith, a
trust, a feeling.
Execution on
the cross was reserved for political troublemakers. Heretics were stoned to
death by the mob. Jesus’ teaching
troubled the ‘polis’ the city. Jesus’ refusal of violence as a response together
with his hospitality and welcome of all, flowed from the profound sense of
thanksgiving for the gift not only of his life but of the deep authentic life
of the Spirit.
As
Benedictine Brother David Stendl-Rast writes ‘I am through you.’ This
phrase reminds us that we become who we are through our relationships. We all
have the possibility of being a gift to the other and receiving through others.
Gratitude flows from this insight and indeed Brother David is the founder of www.gratefuleness.org His life models gratefulness or gratitude. The opposite writes biologist
Rupert Sheldrake, is a sense of entitlement.
‘Our
everyday life in a money-based economy heightens ingratitude because there is
no need to feel grateful for a service we pay for’ (page 47 Science and Spiritual
Practice’)
Sheldrake adds
that entitlement leads to depersonalisation. We come to value others because of
their status or wealth. We begin to blame others, people experiencing poverty,
refugees and those searching for work, Envy is another of the sour fruits of
ingratitude. Its no wonder that the wandering Jesus, healing, and teaching
people that God was among them caused hostility. Jesus made space for people to
freely imagine a different kind of future.
Jesus is a
reflective and reflexive teacher. To be reflexive is to question our questions
and assumptions. The space for this practice emerges from a profound sense that
life is a gift and from this insight gratitude and generosity. An inner sense
of freedom begins to blossom within us.
‘all of
us are here only because our planet exists, and life on earth has evolved over
billions of years to give us this living planet on which we totally depend’ (Sheldrake p48)
Our
existence is not the result of a blind mechanical universe but comes from ‘God’
and therefore we may give thanks for the web of life of which we are part. Paul
writes, ‘in everything give thanks for this is the will of God in Christ
Jesus’
There are
many tragedies in life, we experience or witness great suffering sometimes
caused by others. We gaze on the cross through which Jesus, and doubtless
countless innocent others were unjustly put to death by the occupation army. Today
people are tortured or treated cruelly. We cannot be thankful for the cross or
indeed for any evil, but we can find ways to be thankful in that
situation. Perhaps in a dark moment another person noticed or held our hand and
we felt that human bond. Animals that share our lives can often sense our mood
and offer comfort. Gratitude emerges to bless us.
‘Space
calls for action and before action the imagination is at work’ writes Bachelard.
In our faith
the Eucharist (a word that means thanksgiving) is at the centre of our community.
We are nourished by Scripture, words, and stories brough to life by
imagination. We imagine others in compassionate prayer before breaking bread
and blessing wine, ‘which earth has given and human hands have made’ We
choose to stand with Jesus and his radical inclusive vision.
One practice
that we can adopt as a response to the gift of life is saying grace over our
meals. Beyond set words we see, touch, smell and taste the food. We reflect on
its origins and all the people involved in its preparation from farm gate to
our plate. We ask ourselves about issues of justice and we may begin a
conversation about the ethics of our plate as well as enjoying our meal. We
engage in reflective and reflexive thinking. We may choose to act.
‘If
indeed I am through you’ we cross into abundance which is of course the resurrection at each
crossroad. We are grateful in every
circumstance.